Sunday, January 27, 2019

Phoenix is 6!

 Over winter break Axel had an assignment for World Geography to make a special food item and to tell the significance of the food item. After much discussion a decision to use Challah bread, from Daddy's heritage, was made. We decided to do a practice run as we had never made it before. Daddy Keith remembers his mother and grandmother making it as it is a Jewish tradition around the holidays. Although, it hasn't been a tradition in our little family, it will likely become a tradition as everyone loves the bread.
We made a second loaf and brought it to class this past Friday as Axel shared the food he chose and a sample to his class. I was impressed with how clearly and articulately he spoke. He did not appear nervous at all. I commended him for this and Axel's response was that he has to speak in front of the class often and it is no big deal. I was really proud of him. 
 The 2nd week back to school after winter break, all three kids came down with the flu. Axel came down with it on Saturday afternoon and missed Monday and Tuesday of school. Phoenix started on Monday and she only attended school for 2 hour son Monday and until 1pm on Friday, which was essentially like missing the entire week of school. Rubix came down with it late Monday Night. Needless to say, I was home with all three kids on Tuesday. Keith was home with Axel and Phoenix on Monday and just Phoenix on Wed. I had Phoenix go to Angela's on Thursday so Keith could go to work as I was flying out to St. Louis for another Fellowship weekend as Wash U. Here is a picture of Axel and Rubix talking. I cannot tell you a day where Rubix has lied down all day. He played for a total of 15 minutes sitting all day. That was the rest he needed to get over his fever. I cannot remember a time where Axel has been bedridden for 4 days and I cannot remember a time where Phoenix has slept almost all day for 4 days! You can see here in the background asleep.
 Keith had a very tough weekend with the three kids solo from Thursday night until Tuesday morning. I was suppose to be home late on Monday the 21st, but my flight was delayed and I ended up spending the night in the airport because I didn't think it was worth leaving the airport for 6 hours and I didn't want to take any chances of missing out on an earlier flight. I had promised Phoenix I would bring in donut holes to her classroom on Tuesday and I didn't want to let her down.
The snow storm was suppose to come on Saturday and it ended up coming late Sunday and lasted through Monday. Apparently, Salt Lake City also had a really bad snow storm which is why I was so delayed. I did have fun taking this picture for the kids. I enjoyed my weekend of snow and cold weather. It was nice for a change. 
 I had a great weekend of learning and collaborating with the Wash U faculty and the other 4 fellows. I had great feedback on my presentation with the possibility of presenting it at another conference and maybe publishing my case report in a PT journal for the coming year. We will see how things work out.
 I was so sad to miss Phoenix's birthday, and I was even sadder that Keith had such a rough weekend with the kiddos. He was such a trooper. He has been recovering all week as he got sick himself. The kids are almost 100% but still trying to catch up on sleep and food.

Here is a picture of Phoenix and Ms. Sandoval on Tuesday afternoon. I made it back into town a couple of hours before school ended which allowed me to come to her class the last 15 minutes of school to celebrate with her.


 After school Phoenix went to Mandarin class while I took Axel to the dentist to figure out what we were going to do with that cavity. The dentist discovered that the tooth was rotten through to the root and that the tooth was unsalvageable. On Thursday, I pulled Axel out of school early to get the tooth extracted. Here he is waiting for the anesthesia to kick in. He was really tough and he has handled the whole thing well physically. He really didn't complain much except about an hour after the procedure he asked for something to help with the pain. Other than that, I have been extremely impressed with his physical toughness. The amazing thing is that we think it really shook him up emotionally, as he has been an emotional roller coaster trying to process how he feels he is as a person since this incident. It is amazing how children think through and process events in their life. We pray for wisdom on what to say and how to support him as he suffers internally with the decisions he makes.
 Yesterday we had Phoenix's birthday party. She asked for cupcakes, her friends and a jump house.
 So we had a bounce house, her friends over and cupcakes.
 The kids had fun in the park, playing with hula hoops and running around the house.
 We had her old friend for Challenger, Adella, over and her Harker friends, Jane, Leah, Nicole, Kyla, Maisey, and Ashley. What a fun, fun day. Phoenix was a little over the top with her emotions and had a tough time being her sweet self, but we think it might have been a good learning experience as her friends kindly told her she was being a bit too bossy. It is tough to be 6 and have a bunch of friends over at your house. We hope and pray that she will learn sooner than later how important it is to be graceful and sweet in all circumstances, even when it is "your day".
 I added this picture, because I thought it was funny that the little guy snuck in a cupcake. He had been asking for over an hour and I took my eye off him for just  few minutes and before I know it the entire cupcake was in his BELLY! Here he was asking for help cleaning his hands.
 After 3 and a half hours of playing hard the girls settled down for a movie together. It was just in the nick of time as the birthday girl was TIRED!
 After her friends left at 5 pm our three kiddos enjoyed another hour of the jump house. Axel is lying down protesting a bit, but Rubix and Phoenix didn't need in coaxing.
The kids played hard and then it was a quick bath, dinner and bed. 
 Here Phoenix is reading herself to sleep as I told her only one chapter and she wanted to read more. Now she is such a good reader, she doesn't through a fit when I keep my word about one chapter. She just starts reading until she is too exhausted to keep her eyes open. I am so proud of how good of a reader she has become. Hopefully, she will continue to become a better listener :).
We are headed for a family vacation to Maui in a couple of weeks so I likely won't write another post until the end of February once we return from Hawaii. Until then, God Bless!

Sunday, January 6, 2019

Christmas 2018 and New Years!

Daddy and Phoenix had a lovely time on the last day of school at Santa's breakfast. Here is a picture of Phoenix with one of her friends. They had a two hour breakfast with Santa and then had early dismissal. I picked up Phoenix from school while Axel attended Kristin's b-day celebration as it was her birthday. 

When we got home, we had a little scare as I was putting Rubix down for a nap.  Phoenix was playing with her barbies in the play room and I suddenly heard popping noises and then smelled an awful gas smell coming from the guest bathroom. I quickly called Keith and then 911. We thought it was a natural gas leak, but luckily it was nothing. We think we have a clogged ventilation duct, but we still have another 3 weeks to wait for our plumber to come. Let's just say everyone gets busy, or takes time off during the holidays, which makes for slow fixes in the Szolusha house! 
The awesome thing is we have an AMAZING fire department and they entertained the kids and made sure the house was safe. 
 On Christmas Eve we had a lovely day of baking cookies, Tirmasu, pumpkin scones, ham and more. Phoenix and I spent most of the day in the kitchen. We were both glad to enjoy a beautiful Church service and the yummy food. Axel happen to be at a friend's house most of the afternoon. One of his Harker buddies moved in half a mile away. It was a pleasant surprise!

 Here are the boys all dressed up for church, except Rubix who refuses to wear winter clothes or anything other than cotton lose shorts and t-shirts.
 I love this picture of Keith and the kids.
 My loves!
 The kids in their new PJ's. We didn't do matching pajamas this year because Rubix doesn't wear any and I didn't have a chance to go shopping until 2 weeks before Christmas and they were all soled out!
 The kids opening their stockings Christmas morning.
 Rubix figuring out what presents are.
 Axel smiling, knowing that this heavy rectangular box is his own new laptop computer!
 Phoenix loving Christmas morning!
Phoenix and I got hula hoops for Christmas. We have so much fun doing this together!
 Thanks little Grammy!
 Daddy trying to figure out what Mrs. Szolusha bought for him....a small day luggage bad, that isn't as good or useful as I hoped :(
 We headed to Auntie's house at noon and made great time. We enjoyed an afternoon and evening filled with fun games, conversation and a delicious grab leg meal. Here is Aya and Rubix playing with her new Lego table.
 Braylin, Phoenix and Axel enjoying dinner. We got home quite late, but it was a wonderful day. The kids slept in until 8:40 am the next night which was an awesome treat for Keith and I.
 Phoenix finally had her play date with Kyla. She actually had one at the park and one at the house. Here they are playing school. The girls get a long so well. It was really nice for her to have a couple of play dates because Axel got to see his friends 4 times over the 2+ week break.

Axel has been swimming and running the mile with Daddy. He also has been enjoying the virtual reality bike at the gym. He swam and hour and then rode for 30 minutes one day. The really cool thing is that his mile time went from a 9+ minute to a 7:58 pace over the course of 3 or 4 weeks. He even ran an 8:30 today in the rain with me. He is even talking about wanting to continue to work on his speed as he wants to be a good runner and swimmer. I am so proud of him starting to enjoy physical activity and seeing that he likes trying hard.


I had to work New Year's week so Keith stayed home with the kids. They had such a good time with Daddy. It was really nice being together as a family during Christmas week, although Daddy worked a couple of days to make up for the days he was missing during New Year's week. 

On New Years Day we went for a hike to Deer Hollow Farm. The kids had fun despite the very cold (low 40's) temperature. 
 Rubix won't wear pants so he had to stay in the stroller until he put pants on. He is so funny with the winter clothes thing.
We all had fun watching a cow get milked. It was a bit ironic as Keith mentioned how we should go to a dairy farm and watch a cow get milked. We just lucked out on timing!  

 The kids and I and Rubix is shorts in 45 degree weather!
The other big surprise was a few days ago when I saw the big whole in Axel's tooth. He was talking about hard white chunks coming out of his mouth for a week. I didn't realize he had a huge cavity! I am waiting to have him get evaluated by a pediatric dentist as his dentist says the cavity goes very close to the nerve and he will likely need a "kids root canal". They were closed this weekend so I will see how quickly we can get in. Hopefully, sometime this coming week.
We are feeling so very blessed in the Szolusha household. We have such wonderful family and friends. We spent New Year's Day, after the hike, with my best friend from high school, Tiffany's family. Keith has been very supportive in all of the deadlines I have coming up. I likely won't post until late January after Phoenix's birthday party. We have another fun filled month of activities. Until then, God Bless!